things i would rather be,

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
iridescentlovvaa

I am loved. I am divine. I am growing as a person. I am beautiful. I am magical. I am going to open up more. I am going to make progress in my personal relationships. I am going to succeed at my job. I am going to be more clear minded. I am going to speak up about my feelings. I am going to sing more. I am going to dance more. I am going to create more art. I am going to be clear about emotions and intentions. I am in charge of my mood. I am the setter for the tone. I am powerful. I am going to remember that not everything is linear. I am going to be okay.

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letgoness

Watch yourself, watch how you react, watch how you think, watch the kind of thoughts you have. As you become more aware and vigilant, the phantom self will lose its control. It’s like playing hide and seek. You’re trying to smoke it out. When it comes up you say, “I see you. You are not going to control me this time.” It may be spinning feelings of fear, doubt, loss of control or anger but you see it as ‘noise’ generated by false beliefs. Then you can say, “The is door open, it’s time to go.” Talk to yourself like this, and it will dissipate on its own accord. That’s how you work on yourself. 

Robert Adams

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halfhardtorock

Tbh I don’t know a single bi woman who doesn’t struggle with her attraction to men in some substantive, orientation-informing way…

Be it her frustration with trying to vocalize the nuances and differences between her experience of same gender attraction and her attraction to men…(or the social pressure NOT to vocalize this because bi women are seen as inauthentic if we have varied experiences of attraction instead of equal, etc).

Or how her experience of biphobia/homophobia is innately and irrevocably knotted up with misogyny in many painful ways and is suffered in her most intimate of relationships…

Or how her attraction to men isn’t always positive or a blessing but can be confusing and highly unwanted, making her question how much her experience of attraction is informed by internalized homophobia and compulsory heterosexuality.

But these kinds of feelings and discussions are often neglected because there’s so much pressure to perform this kind of bi pride where we’re all totally comfortable with our experience of attraction and totally confident with our label and our embodied experience of it.